Thanks to advise what happened for me, performed the above described suggestion and had the following happen:
Before taking these actions I had zero items in the messaging app, and I don't use hangouts all that much so was at the time unaware what messages if any resided there (at least I know there was nothing unread otherwise I would have seen a notification on the device, anyway :
Disable messaging
Restart device
Enable messaging
Hangouts opened instead of sms messaging
In hangouts found 1 unread mms message the same one I'd removed a while ago from messages app.
Deleted desired messages from hangouts
Opened messages, no new messages icon

Hangouts became default sms app, using a prompt I switcher messages as default sms app.
All is well